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Dating someone without a job

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But aside from the obvious traits one should avoid in a mate: You know what I am talking about.

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And read my 21 pieces of unsolicited advice for you, the brokenhearted. In our teens, being in the band made a man Dating someone without a job. I went and confirmed it with an expert. It also highlights his self-esteem. If your man has recently changed directions, graduated school or been laid off, give him a break. Give him a reasonable time frame and pay attention to his dedication and energy level. It may Dating someone without a job time to give him the pink slip.

These skills are not only about self-sufficiency and a dislike of smells and crittersbut show that one is interested in enjoying life and not too lazy to go beyond the basics. I chalk these things up to being the side effects of a full life.

A man who knows how to take care of himself—and cares enough to make the effort to do so — will be far more inclined to step-up and take care of you than someone who just expects you to live according to his low standards or act as a full time maid-service.

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No one should be doing all of the work, you have to have a happy medium. He cooks, you clean. He makes the bed, you dust the tables.

Family-obsessed is another story. One that accepts you too quickly is also a big no-no. And really, who wants to make out with a man baby?

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