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Best part of dating a homeless girl I take this? What kind of articles would you like to see on TSR? Start new discussion Reply. Follow 1 This is random, I know, but I have been helping out at a homeless shelter and I met this one girl who seems really "with it" considering what she's going through.
Anyway, I had the chance to talk to her and she's a nice girl, but not just that, but she scrubs up well. I am not saying that because she's homeless she is automatically unattractive, but you don't always see many attractive homeless people. She is polish and i was jokingly using my app on my phone to talk to her in her language without much success. Anyway, I don't know what is going on in her life, but I kind of feel attracted to her.
I don't even know how to go about this situation. Jordooooom Follow 2 followers 0 badges Send a private message to Jordooooom. Follow 2 Or you know, ask her if she needs a place to stay?
Babylid Follow 0 followers 0 badges Send a private message to Babylid. Follow 3 Take her into your house and be prepared to wake up with nothing inside it.
Follow 4 Follow 5 You are there to help people. Not hit on them.
If you cannot handle the responsibility then you shouldn't be doing the job. W Follow 3 followers 5 badges Send a private message to Ryan. Follow 6 Love is love at the end of the day. Follow 7 Original post by chocolatesauce get to know her better Original post by DorianGrayism No. Follow 8 Original post by euphrosyne I don't see what's wrong with liking a girl who's homeless and starting a relationship.
Her economic status shouldn't really mean much to you, especially if you're relatively young, which I'm assuming you are. Follow 9 Original post by WhiteWalker I don't even know what she thinks about me. I just said I'm attracted to her. It's really awkward as i don't want people at the shelter to think i'm exploiting her due to her situation.
Juichiro Follow 37 followers 18 badges Send a private message to Juichiro. Follow 10 If she stays with you, she becomes dependent on you which means that she will stay with you even if things don't word between you two because she has nowhere to go. I think having that much power over someone else is too dangerous. If you want to hit on her, help her get a place maybe yours but only temporarily and a job so she can become independent and get her own place.
Once she becomes financially and legally independent, then hit on her as hard as you want. Follow 11 I don't see why people are getting on their high horse and using the word "exploiting". If you worked in a restaurant, and you asked a girl that came in regularly to go for a coffee with you, that isn't exploitation. How is it any different just because she's Best part of dating a homeless girl You work in a place that she comes into regularly to use the services provided.
She can always say no to your proposal. Olie Follow 9 followers 19 badges "Best part of dating a homeless girl" a private message to Olie. Follow 12 Follow 13 Original post by Olie What?!
Who said anything about his interest in this girl affecting his ability to do the job, I agree with the poster who said its a dangerous game being interested in someone in that position, but I don't see why she's completely off bounds cause she's homeless and why people are acting like the OP's some kind of monster, he's just helping the homeless, a noble thing to do and can't help who he's attracted to.
Follow 14 Original post by WhiteWalker This is random, I know, but I have been helping out at a homeless shelter and I met this one girl who seems really "with it" considering what she's going through. Follow 15 Original post by WoodyMKC I don't see why people are getting on their high horse and using the word "exploiting". Follow 16 There are different types of homeless people. Some of them seem to be nursing a can of Tennent's or Holsten constantly but some others have a moral compass of sorts.
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Follow 17 You shouldn't pursue her OP, you are in what could be seen as a position of authority over her, someone who is homeless and needs help may feel unable to say no if someone at the shelter hit on them, or feel obligated to say yes. It's similar to how healthcare professionals aren't allowed to have relationships with patients. Posted from TSR Mobile.