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Living in halls How to choose your halls Six times you'll be glad you went ensuite What you need to know about private halls. Undergraduate Full time Part time. Turn on thread page How to avoid hookup a girl Toggle. How do people hook up in clubs? Start new discussion Reply. I'm a 20 year old guy in second year of uni and so far I haven't even done anything with a girl. I go out to clubs and see my mates booking up with people but I don't even know where to start.

I wouldn't even know how to approach a girl. I have very low self esteem and I am quite shy most of the time so I know that doesn't help but I want to change it I just don't know where to start. Follow 2 The only person I've ever had to confidence to ask out rejected me which destroyed what little self confidence and self esteem I had so I just get scared I guess that something similar will happen at the club even though it's a different scenario and I want different things from both situations so I just don't know what I can do.

Follow 4 If you have a How to avoid hookup a girl vibe, you can make all the mistakes you want, she will get along with you anyway.

So if you can get past your nerves, and take flirting in clubs as a game If she says no, who cares?! You'll never see her again. Use the a cocktail excuse Spot a hot girl you like and position yourself close by. Then take a quick look to her cocktail and ask her if she likes it or not, talking over your shoulder. Embrace that playful spirit you have when you joke around with your crew. A few examples here: Is it not what this is all about, a game?

Challenge her Many guys will approach her that same night but just a few of them will be confident. The majority of them are probably sloppy, drunk or nervous. Grab your balls and approach in a super direct way, saying honestly what you feel looking at her. Remember to have an open body language, move slowly and keep eye contact. You should use this kind of approach just with the girls who makes your jaw drop on the floor.

If her beauty really leaves you breathless, you need to make her know it, cause she spent time wearing makeup and stuff to have all the eyes on her. The proxy approach Show the girls that you already have the power of female attraction.

You can do this in different ways: I can tell you dozens of episodes when girls approached me just cause I already was in a female group. Not to mention that hanging out with girls is the best way to learn something more about them and enlarge your knowledge on what women want. Go out there and have some fun; you have nothing to lose Moooose. Follow 5 Original post by veganavb Talk to girls! Follow 6 Talk Ask generic How to avoid hookup a girl. Most crucial stage - kino.

You must hold her waist or her hand. Her How to avoid hookup a girl to your touch will tell you whether she is into you or not and whether you're wasting your time.

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Google it do whatever it takes to understand the process of screening. If she moves away or is not recepitive to your touch Hold her hand and lead her to a different part of the club. Very important in isolating her. The hardest part, getting her home.

I'm not going to give you advice on that because its difficult and requires personal skill and lines. So you can work that out for yourself.

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Find what works and keep using it. Any one have any questions, pm me. Zarek Follow 43 followers 18 badges Send a private message to Zarek. Follow 7 Try the pub instead. Clubs are not for the faint hearted. Follow 8 Can't you just go with a confident friend to the smoking area? Gatewaymerge Follow 4 followers 13 badges Send a private message to Gatewaymerge.