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What not to do while hookup a girl

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Hooking up in college can be a wondrous thing, but also a complete disaster. It can be fun, sexy, and satisfying or awkward, uncomfortable, and leave you hanging. With the help of some fellow Her Campus staffers and friends, we present to you a list of tips on how to make your hook up experience in college the most enjoyable.

Although this article is targeted towards women, we hope that everyone can learn from and enjoy these tips.

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It was written by women who have primarily had heterosexual experiences, but we hope that these tips are applicable and relatable to anyone and everyone. Do be your confident, naturally sexy self. This is not a hunt.

Sometimes this can lead to disappointment. Do be clear with your expectations for yourself. If you hit it off with some hottie on the dance floor let the magic happen.

But if booty call is the name of your game, go forth and multiply your orgasms. Hook-ups are bound to have slip-ups or awkward moments, so lighten up the situation and have a little laugh.

Hook-ups should be footloose and fancy-free!! It may seem obvious that foregoing a condom is risky behavior, but unprotected sex still happens quite frequently. We all know the horrid statistic that 1 in 4 college students has an STD.

There are endless questions that...

Unfortunately, according to a recent guest speaker in a Pomona Human Sexuality class, chlamydia is not that uncommon here on the 5Cs.

Do use a condom! If you are one of those condom-haters, learn to love them by sampling some of the ultra-thin kinds, such as Beyond Seven, or those geared towards female arousal, like Trojan Her Pleasure! When in doubt, you can always ask. The right time to leave a hook-up is highly dependent on context, so just stay aware. Obviously ignoring someone is not playing hard to get; it can be confusing and slightly rude. Do acknowledge the person. Depending on the situation, the friendly spectrum can go from a brief chat to a quick hello to a head nod or a small wave.

Maintaining a light and amicable relationship keeps things from getting unbearably awkward on our tiny campus. And more importantly, those smiles and hellos keep the hook-up express lane open for business should you want a repeat encounter.

You may be feeling nervous...

Do make sure you give the person and yourself some time or space. Both of you should figure out how you feel about the magical evening and what you want from it without a barrage of texting.

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